Which is better Mature or Childlike

I would love to be matured, at least I wanted to pretend to  But most of the time my close ones tell me I look, talk and behave like a kid. In fact, my best bud here calls me “Kozhandha” which I can’t deny sometimes.

My voice is akin to those of the soft ever tot but not all the time.

Given a podium to talk I would spruce myself up to reveal my disposition. My school and collegemates very well know about this.

I consider myself to be mature than being childish. That doesn’t mean I am a strict officer like Rules Ramanujam or so. I very well behave babyish with my mom, my close gang but to the outer world, I haul to display myself as a mature one.

A few things in which I strictly behave matured

• I never ever involved in a third-party conversation unless I am directly involved.
• I am available anytime for anyone to discuss their woes, share suggestions, or for a little console. But I no more turn up the heat. It is just that I don’t volunteer to go into one’s private space.
• Earlier, I give more importance to my fellow friends or colleagues. Now that I have realized my parents are way too more predominant that anyone else.
• I have reduced my social media limits from minimum to nil. Even Quora, I can count the minutes I spend here.
• I was once a nonstop chatterbox, now I continue to be so but only towards a handful of ones.
• I never got influenced by other’s words and now I am even keener on my toes I remain firm in my decisions.
• I’ve realized “Everything happens for a reason & to just move on with the same bolster” which means I can face cent percent more troubles now.
• Most importantly, I am in a swing to stop procrastinating over things.

I don’t know if this makes me matured or if this is exaggerating. But, I have gained myself to mold a new me !

Life, afterall doesn’t stay the same always. From being childish to handling maturity, we grow :)